Hello Alice,
Thank you for the honest feedback. The team is constantly looking for ways to lower the shipping on orders. In the past year we have cut costs for every shipment and while we can't offer free shipping on all items we have been able to provide free shipping on U.S. Nail Mail subscriptions. (This only applies to the subscription itself, other added items will be charged shipping) Keep your eyes open far all the sweet sales and maybe this will help to ease your mind when you shop. Again, we are always looking to do MOAR and will be trying.
--The EC Team